Feeling pressured?

 DISCLOSURE: I am not an expert on sex; just a woman sharing bits & pieces of what she and some of her friends have learned in life. Feel free to email me if you have specific questions or want me to share your story on the blog. Don't be shy someone else might have gone through/is going through the same exact things you are going through. If you don't ask you will never know :)

   We all know the feeling of being in love or at least at one point in your life you have really liked someone of the opposite sex or same sex (no judgment here :) ). Things are going well with this supposed partner and you are feeling a little pressure to take things to the next step of sex. You are not sure if you are ready for this next step but you do not want to loose this person. Well let me just tell you right now that having sex with that person will not keep them around! Don't succumb to the pressure of doing the things you are not ready to do just to please someone else. You will regret it!!!! Do things on your own time and at your own pace. If that person cares about you he or she will wait for you.

       It is your body and you should have absolute control of when, how and who you want to share it with. Even if you are not a virgin who you share your body with still matters! For most people sex is not only physical (shout out to the very few that can have just physical  sex) it is very emotional. When you have sex with someone you are not only sharing your body, you are sharing you vulnerability as well. To be naked in front of someone else is a big deal! If you are choosing not to wait till marriage, you want to share your body with someone you know that even if it doesn't work out between you guys you won't regret it. If you are waiting till marriage I am guessing you are going to marry someone that you can be vulnerable with. With all this being said, pick your sexual partner wisely my friends.

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